With Valentine’s Day approaching, I’m finding that ads are just jam-packed with messages of “love.” Yes. I put that in quotation marks. Here’s a great one:
Why He’s Not “in Love”catchhimandkeephim.com
**The mascara tear is a nice touch, don’t you think?
Make Him Addicted To Youhavetherelationshipyouwant.com
**Because “addict” says, “Love me forever!” Sheesh!
And my personal fave:
Find Your Other Halfen.smartdate.com
**I’m missing half of me?? I SO did not know that!!! That explains soooooo much! 😉
Isn’t it interesting?
I find it very interesting that the overall theme is that there is ANYTHING a woman can say/do to turn an “emotionally unavailable” guy on his heels and send him running into her arms, addicted to her and declaring his undying love so that they can “complete each other” because part of her was missing til he showed up.
GIVE ME A BREAK!!!
I’m not cynical.
Really. I’m not. I love long kisses. And walks in the moonlight. Playing at the park. Running in the rain. I adore snuggling in on a cold night with a movie. (All of that sounds more like what I do with my dogs! Haha!)
I’m not cynical. I adore men! I think men are fabulous beings. They are a wonderful contribution on our amazing planet. Men ROCK!
And I’m not missing half of me!
I am whole. Just as I am.
YOU are whole. Just as you are!
No man holds the missing link to the half of me that I’m missing. I am not missing half of me. I was born whole. I will be whole til the day I leave this planet…man, or no man.
And same goes for men! Men are whole, with or without a woman. (I’m just writing from my own perspective since I am a woman.)
Our society makes this big deal out of being “alone” or whatever. I am not alone! Most of the time, I’d love some “alone” time. 😀
What is that anyway?! Alone? If we are all energetic beings..and we’re all connected on some level..can we EVER truly be alone?! Or are we buying into the bullshit that our society feeds us? Would you like to give that up?!
This Valentine’s Day…and every day for that matter…be your own valentine! Love and adore you! Do something special for yourself..because YOU are worth it. Not because some man/woman finds you worthy.
Are you willing??! Do you really desire something different?!
Much Gratitude for you!
One Conscious Chick!
What would it be like to be grateful for YOU?!