Did you know the real magic in life is the willingness to have infinite choice?
What is choice ? To me choice is the gift of free will.
Choice is different from decision. You can choose something different moment to moment if you choose to versus a decision which is concrete and cannot be changed.
Something occurred today and I became aware of choice, more specifically being ok with my choice. We spend a lot of times aligning and agreeing and resisting and reacting to choice. Most of the time to other people’s choices. I became aware that I do this a lot because I myself don’t know what I would like to choose. So my reality was created based on pleasing or pissing other people off.
Today, a new a space was created. It was subtle and interesting. Here’s how it started… My brother had wanted to come and visit me on a Tuesday prior Thanksgiving and although I love him dearly I really much prefer him showing up on Wednesday. He continued on to tell me that there will be traffic on Wednesday, etc, etc.
In the past I would’ve resisted and reacted to his choice and made him wrong and then make me wrong for desiring something different. Gosh, why can’t I just be a good sister?
Then I would proceed to discount me and allow him to do whatever he wants. I chose something different today. Instead of aligning and agreeing or resisting and reacting I asked him a question, I asked him, “is it so unreasonable for you to consider coming a day later for my sake?”
A question always empowers and facilitate new possibilities while an answer becomes a limited conclusion.
Another incident occurred where I was asked to see patient for work on an off day and the roads are slick and I’ve been in acupuncture class most of the day. Normally, I would have said yes because I like money and I had the point of view that the amount of money I have determines my value. And today I chose differently and I said no. I didn’t do it to offend other people. I chose it to honor me. I like my days off and although I like money it really just wasn’t enough to get me out there in the cold and slick road. Normally, I would make me wrong. I would count the 1001 ways why my choice is the incorrect one. I’m not making the money I want, the universe is creating this opportunity for me and I’m not receiving it, I’m not caring for the people that require it, I won’t be seen as a good employee anymore, and on and on. Sigh….
Again, like I mentioned those 1001 reasons are conclusion and conclusions are limitations. Nothing that matches what you’ve concluded can show up in your reality.
So I chose to ask a question instead, what else is possible here that I haven’t considered? Is it really about the money?
A few hours later I notice this interesting new feeling, new sensation that I am really not that familiar with. I’m sure I’ve encountered it sometime in the past but it seemed so much more profound today. So I asked, what is this? What do I do with it?
I became aware that this is a new space of possibility that has been created because I was willing to choose for me. When I’m willing to choose and honor me I become a contribution to my living. This is the generative and creative energy that creates the living that I desire to have and be.
So now let me ask you, what would you like to choose today? What contribution to your living can you be?
Are you willing to destroy and uncreate all the past references and conclusions and allow the universe to show you and gift to you everything that your heart desires and more?
Thanks for stopping by!!
May your life comes to you with ease, joy, and glory.
The other Conscious Chicky 😀
P.S. Dr. Dain Heer, Access Facilitator recently created a tele-class, “Choice: the Source for Living.”
And he gifted to us the first call for free. How did we get so lucky? How does it get even better than this?